Those that grew up in South East London, or that corner of Surrey and Kent in the 50s, 60, or 70s will probably remember the lure of the dancehalls and later disco’s. Places like, ‘The Orchid Ballroom,’ (later to become ‘Tiffany’s’) in Purley, Surrey, a regular haunt and meeting place on a Friday or Saturday night for thousands of young people. Perhaps for some of you who do remember, this may ring a few bells. This particular evening was in July 1974.
A Night at the Orchid
The band is playing the music is loud
the Orchid is buzzing, it’s got a good crowd.
Disco lights flashing all over the place
throw splashes of purple and green on each face.
Dancers gyrating all over the floor,
the number ends and they call for more.
Men are in suits and girls in their glad rags,
dancing in couples, or just around handbags.
I’m at the bar with a glass in my hand,
looking in awe at this great wonderland,
hoping perhaps that soon I might see
a girl on her own who might dance with me.
Oh she looks gorgeous, just there, by the wall,
with lovely dark hair and she’s not very tall.
I’d like to ask her, but don’t think I dare,
I’ll have to be careful, it’s rude to stare.
I think she’s seen me, now was that a smile?
I bet if I ask her she’ll run a mile.
My heart beats faster my mouth is so dry,
my legs won’t move, but I do want to try.
I’m almost there now, it should be OK.
She can only say no, but what do I say?
I‘m going to ask her, I will take a chance.
‘Excuse me, but… Would you like to dance?’
She did say yes and we danced for a while,
and me? I was simply lost in her smile.
Then much later on when the band played slow
when the night was late and the lights were low.
It was then that I held her close and tight
in the long slow dance that ends the night.
Our evening, it ended in perfect bliss
we fixed a first date and shared a first kiss.
The Orchid has gone now. The band retired
all quite unaware of what had transpired.
They never knew of the change to my life,
that because of them, I had just met my wife.



